Yes, anger. We all feel it sometimes, some more than others, and if we're not careful, it consumes us and takes control.
So, always have a cool head, unless you want to do something you'll regret. Then again, it certainly looks like having a cool head and thinking through everything will solve all the rest of your problems... well, it solves them by preventing them in the first place.
So is it a battle of your mental will against your emotions? Perhaps. Your mental strength against your feelings. The mind against the heart.
Personally, I've learned that using your brain instead of your heart truly saves you from the pain when the disappointment comes. Then again, you would be restricting your feelings from truly taking flight.
Most people would say 'oh, just follow your heart.' Fat hope, I say. But ironically, I'm a hypocrit in this. I sometimes just follow my heart because 'I feel like it', even though I know in the end I'm going to get killed or something.
So in mathematical terms, the graph of using your brain is a constant graph with 0 gradient, while the one of using your heart is a negative quadratic curve.
But alright, enough of that, back to anger. Anger may actually be a good thing. It certainly pumps you up and makes you stronger, faster and more deadlier.
How many times have you seen a referee being totally biased in a football match, and the team he is biased against vent their anger on the ball, and eventually winning the match. Wayne Rooney certainly knows, and I'm pretty sure any other sportsmen out there will know of this. Maybe this is more of frustration rather than of anger.
Then again, frustration could make a team lose hope, and stop fighting for their cause. Frustration may cause them to start whining as well.
I admit, sometimes I'm like that, and I'm just surprised no one's called me a whiny b**ch yet.
Advice of the day: Stop whining, start winning!
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